Thalia: week 1

What can I say? Week one is at a close, and I’ve already learned a lot:

Childbirth is a bloody, wet, painful, sickening thing - and I’m so humbled and grateful Joanna let me be part of it.

Diapers are damn expensive and babies can burn through a gross of ‘em in no time.

The NICU has all kinds of alarms, bells, and whistles - it helps to get to know them so you don’t freak out as much.

I now realize how insignificant the smell of a shitty diaper is; it’s natural, and it needs attention. No big deal.

Sleep is a luxury which should be treated with great respect. If you see a napping daddy/mommy at your work place, do them a favor: turn the light out and close the door.

I now understand why new parents often look like zombies: they haven’t truly slept in a long, long time.

It’s OK to get by with a little help from friends/family. Let them pitch in.

Baby swings are the single greatest invention in the history of mankind. Screw the internet, the wheel, the saddle, or the frickin’ refrigerator. Baby swings.

I have much more respect for single parents - it’s tough enough with a team!

Getting pissed on is no big deal - that’s what wipes are for.

I know what it is to love unconditionally. My love for Thalia is unique to my existence. I’ve never felt love so deeply, so intensely, as I do when she’s asleep in my arms. It’s impossible to explain - it can only be understood by other fathers.

There is so, so much more I can write, but I think I’ll quit now. This post is the first in a series I will publish under the category “Thalia weekly” - weekly updates of Thalia, mommy, and daddy. Thanks for reading.

2 Responses to “Thalia: week 1”

  1. Brandy
    6/11/07

    I love it!!! and for the record, yes Thalia sprung a leak all over me when I changed her Saturday… Needless to say, Joanna and I haven’t laughed that much in a long time:) The kids can’t stop talking about her and we can’t wait to see her again. We love you!
    All our Love-
    Brandy, Nicole, Austin, Heidi, and Dallas

  2. shawn.plew
    6/12/07

    I just what to say thank you again to everyone. Thalia is such a joy to us and like Shawn said, who needs sleep. However I still would not want to go through 9 months of pregnancy. If I could go from finding out that I was pregnant straight to delivery I would do it again. Forget everything in between. Please feel free to come visit us anytime, Thalia loves seeing new faces and sounds. Or if you happen to be up at 3am give me a call. Once again thanks to everyone and all they have done for us.

    Joanna

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